Who is currently holding me back from being my best self? Is it possible to mend or change this relationship and realign this person to my goals?
How can I build more supportive relationships with the people in my life?
If we’re able to figure out how to successfully maneuver through these landmines, that’s when an improbable goal becomes a deep-rooted part of our reality.
Let’s for a moment divert our attention to multi-million dollar lottery winners.
Our poor choices, subsequently lead us down less than optimal paths as we work toward our goals.
These thoughts we tend to dwell upon are often recognized as the 10 Cognitive Distortions that sabotage people’s choices and behavior.
We will categorize these obstacles as personal, environmental, and social.
Each obstacle presents you with a different set of challenges.
The key here is to subtly influence people by attempting to better understand their needs, motives, and desires.
Only in this way will you successfully improve your chances of maneuvering through the social obstacles in your life.